YOU ARE THE DEFINITION OF PERFECT
I WAS TRYING TO BE CUTE THEN I LOOKED AT THE WAll LL AND THERE WAS A GIANT FUckING SPIDER ANndso OH MY GOd IT WAS TERRRIFYING
a RRE YOU FUCKING SERIOUS THIS HAS OVER A THOUSAND nOTES???? WHy
THIS IS THE FACE OF TRUE FUCKING TERROR
Omg I’m crying
what a beautiful story
No. With white people as the standard of beauty already, any individual’s fascination or obsession with white people sexually is not a fetish. The black guys I know that only want to fuck white girls do it because they’re ignorant about themselves and they’ve been made into thinking that kind of way because of some fucked up personal history.
But I guess if you would still want to term it as a fetish, then it definitely isn’t to the degree of Latinas, black women, etc and although it would be degrading, it doesn’t have nearly the effects on white people as it does on PoC.
Me walking around, as a black male, having white girls fantasizing about how big my dick is, dehumanizing me and black men in general as just sex beasts and then the same with black women
white people were never degraded like that.
So its definitely not anywhere near the same degree but I wouldn’t even call it a fetish more than just ignorance and/or self hate.
Kinda disagree a lot if the black men I know who date white women fetish them to a degree very often seeing them as a trophy and or seeing them to be submissive as a woman that kind rubs me the wrong way.
Well yeah, I think that also plays into it. The point is, a lot of poc regard white people as better to date for a variety of reasons but a lot if it mainly comes down to this self-hate and holding white people on a pedestal they don’t deserve. Ultimately it’s a different dynamic than when a white person fetishizes a poc.
Plus it’s not the same in every part of the world, so yeah, I’m gonna say white women can be fetishized (not men tho), sometimes to the same degree as woc in say, the USA.
Interesting, I hadn’t considered that.
There’s no need to consider that.
The idea that white women are submissive is racialized misogyny that some other women of color are not afforded. Even so, white women and their feminine fragility is the reason why men hold them in high regard vs. when women of color are seen as submissive and it is seen as a reason to control them.
Obviously this is more nuanced. Control and power is something that cis men have other genders they are in a relationship with because of the cis-hetero patriarchy. But by definition someone who is being fetishized is being objectified and white women are held in high regard BECAUSE THEY ARE THE ONLY WOMEN TO BE HUMANIZED.
When a white woman sees society’s obsession with her beauty as fetishization she is mistakenly attributing society’s obsession with white standards of beauty to her own existence. White women, I hear this shit come from your mouths all the time, and it’s so annoying. You think men of color are targeting you specifically when you are only exceptional in that you don’t have to navigate a plethora of dehumanizing stereotypes when you date.
Black women aren’t angry that you’re dating black men and black men aren’t chasing you exclusively. Quit acting like you’re the center of everyone’s fucking attention; that’s such a privileged thing to do.
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